While it is an experience that many women in our society encounter, pregnancy loss (whether a miscarriage, stillbirth, or abortion) is rarely spoken about and is mostly experienced in silence and shame, and without dedicated space that supports healing. We find ourselves in a time in our world where:
There is very little space in our communities where women can be adequately held and supported to heal and process the loss of their pregnancies. Many women move through this experience alone, without dedicated support where they can feel seen, heard, and validated, and with necessary processes held in place to help them dissolve the impact of the loss in their lives.
Further, there’s a growing absence of resources (that women know of and are aware of) to facilitate healing for this experience as a Rite of Passage for women. The indigenous ways of supporting women in this experience are also being lost/ forgotten, and part of the intention of this offering is to restore and honor pregnancy and pregnancy loss as a Rite of Passage and an initiation of womanhood.
This sacred offering intends to breathe life into a space where loss and death have occurred and to support a woman back into a vibrant life after loss, where she feels confident in her body and her relationships.
The core essence of ENLIVEN is to hold space for you, at any stage or phase of having experienced pregnancy loss (whether a miscarriage, stillbirth, or abortion), to heal your womb and dissolve the impact of the loss on key areas of your life, including your intimate relationships, sexual intimacy, your relationship with your body and womb, and your spirituality.
Our 12-session healing work in ENLIVEN will begin with an Initial Consultation Session to clarify which of the above areas in your life have been impacted by the loss and need healing. The areas that emerge in our Consultation and Discovery process will be the focus of our work over the 12 sessions. In alignment with your needs and desires, the intention for this healing work is for you to reach the completion of our work:
- Feeling seen, heard, and supported in your experience of loss.
- Having restored trust in your body and womb.
- Feeling confident in your body and yoni.
- Feeling confident within your intimate and/or sexual relationships.
- Having processed the heavy emotions you might hold around this experience, including but not limited to grief, self-blame, fear, shame, guilt, etc. around the loss.
- And, having reconciled with and restored your trust and confidence in God.
- You’ve experienced a loss of pregnancy and would like to heal your womb and/or the impact of the loss in your life.
- You’re in a state of grief, shame, anger, fear, or self-blame connected to the loss and would like dedicated space to process and dissolve these emotions and their charge in your life.
- You’re experiencing challenges, tension, a lack of fulfillment, or a lack of confidence in your romantic or sexual relationships connected to the loss, and you would like to open up to intimacy again and confidently enjoy this aspect of your woman life.
- You’re experiencing challenges in your relationship with your body and womb after the loss and would like to restore trust in your body and womb and feel confident again.
- You’re ready to do the deeper work of healing, and dissolving the impact of the loss on key areas of your life.
- You’re ready to invest time and energy doing this deep work of healing your womb and life.
This healing program incorporates Elemental Medicine and Energy Medicine to support your healing.
Elemental Medicine entails working with the elements of the earth, including water, plants/ herbs, fire, and air to support and facilitate your healing. You will experience this medicine in the physical processes you will be guided in doing, and that include:
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- A Womb Healing Ceremony; a physical cleansing process for your whole body.
- Indigenous medicine to drink, that will support with cleansing your womb.
- Womb Steaming; using water and herbs specifically for healing, soothing, and nourishing the womb after loss.
- Womb teas to help heal, nourish, and support the blossoming of life in your body and womb.
Energy Medicine entails working with the energy in your body, including your emotions, your thought patterns, your beliefs, and your Spirit, to support and facilitate your healing. You will experience this medicine in the energy healing work we will do, and that includes:
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- Guided Meditations and Inner Journeys, including Womb Meditations to facilitate exploration and conversations with your womb, a Timeline Repair process for the inner landscape of your womb, and Body Meditations to cultivate expanded presence in your body and womb.
- Body Work / Somatic Work, to release the emotions held in your body connected to the loss, and to support in cultivating a sense of presence and felt safety in your body.
- Emotional Clearing, to identify, clear, and release the emotions held in your womb and body connected to your experience.
- Journaling Prompts, to support inner exploration and reflection, and to facilitate an activation of new timelines in your relationship with your body, your womb, God, and in your intimate and sexual relationship.
- Prayer and Decrees, to invoke the presence of the Holy Spirit in our work, invite Divine Dispensation to support and facilitate the healing of your body, your womb, your relationships, and your connection to God, and to activate new timelines in your life where you can thrive and build a vibrant and nourishing life.
The intention of this work on Emotional Healing & Clearing is to support you in clearing and releasing the dense emotions you might still hold in your body and womb that are connected to the loss. These emotions may include (but are not limited to) grief, fear, shame, guilt, self-blame, confusion, despair, sadness, heartbreak, regret, etc, and may also affect your relationship with your body and womb and how you navigate your intimate and sexual relationships. The core intention of this Emotional Healing work is to clear and release the charge of these emotions in your body and restore well-being in your body, your womb, and your relationships.
When loss occurs, this is a pain that is also sustained by the womb, as the place where this loss has occurred. And so, there’s the invitation to facilitate healing for the physical and energetic aspects of your womb.
The work of healing your womb will incorporate Elemental and Energy Medicine, to clear and release any density that might still be held within your womb space. Our work here will include a Womb Healing Ceremony, Emotional Clearings for your womb, a Quantum Repatterning/ Timeline Repair process for your womb, womb cleansing medicine to drink, womb steaming, and womb teas. And, in the case of a recent loss, this work will also entail postpartum guidance on how to support the healing and recovery of your body and your womb.
WOMB HEALING CEREMONY
Done by way of physically cleansing your body, this Womb Healing Ceremony will facilitate spiritual, physical, and emotional healing connected to the loss. The intention of this cleanse is to honor the Sacred Contract made between you and your child, and to release and lay to rest the Spirit of that child. Further, the ceremony will cleanse or clear the energetic debris (sefifi, in Setswana) that might still be lingering around your energetic field and your life, as a result of the experience of loss. This ceremony will also support with and facilitate any needed Forgiveness Work.
Forgiveness Work might be needed in releasing the contract between you and your child and/or connected to the emotions of self-blame, guilt, regret, etc, that you might feel around this experience. After this Ceremony, you will receive indigenous cleansing medicine to support with cleansing your womb of any debris connected to the loss.
TIMELINE REPAIR
This is a work of repairing, at an energetic level, the timeline or path of this experience of loss. This will include working with the younger aspects of you that experienced this loss to release the emotions you felt in the event of the loss and the influence that they have on your present-day life. We will also work with the God-aspects of you to facilitate healing for your Spirit, and begin to cultivate within you an inner environment of well-being where you can thrive again and begin to build and/or cultivate meaningful relationships.
WOMB STEAMING & WOMB TEAS
We do this work with the appreciation that this was a painful event for your womb as well. And, right from the beginning of our work together, you will receive a recommendation to begin steaming your womb with water and herbs that will help cleanse, soothe, and nourish your womb, and enable you to thrive and feel confident again. Our work with womb teas will support the steaming mentioned above. Similarly, the herbs in the recommended teas will help cleanse and nourish your womb and body and cultivate inner well-being.
POSTPARTUM WISDOM
This healing work honors pregnancy loss as a birth process. Therefore, if your experience is recent, our work together will include guidance on how to care for a postpartum body and womb. The recommended protocols and practices will be grounded in Setswana Indigenous Knowledge Systems, and you will be encouraged and supported to learn and incorporate your community’s postpartum care practices if these are present and available to you.
Closely connected to the work of healing your womb is the work of healing your relationship with your womb, in how this might have been impacted by the loss. The intention of this work is to explore, untangle, and dissolve any wounded beliefs and stories you might have formed about your womb as you were moving through the loss, and which might also affect your openness and keenness in romantic or sexual relationships. The intention is to support you in cultivating a healthier relationship with your womb, which will also grow your capacity to enjoy and show up confidently in relationships.
And closely connected to the work of healing your relationship with your womb is the work of healing your relationship with your body, in how this might have been impacted by the loss. As Bessel van der Kolk aptly puts it in his book of the same title, “the body keeps the score” of the experiences we have in our lives. The impact of these experiences continues to live within us and influence our lives well past the events and experiences themselves.
And this work of healing your relationship with your body is, in part, a work of clearing and releasing the emotions still held within your body that are connected to the loss, thus diffusing their charge and influence over your life. It is also a work that will allow us to explore, untangle, and dissolve any wounded beliefs and stories you might have formed about your body as you were moving through the loss, and that might affect how you feel about your body, how you care for your body, and whether you are open and receiving of intimate and sexual relations. The intention is to dissolve the challenges or tensions you might face connected to your body and support you in feeling confident again.
The occurrence of loss can affect intimate relationships in various ways. And the intention of this Intimacy Work is to explore how the loss might have impacted your relationship and/or how you now show up in intimate and sexual relationships. The intention is to support you in dissolving challenges or tension that might have emerged in your relationship after the loss, a loss of interest in intimacy, or a difficulty with getting into fulfilling relationships.
The impact of the loss on your intimate and sexual relationships might also be connected to how you feel about your body and yoni, and to the emotions you might still feel around the loss, and so, the work around this would have also already started in the Womb Healing, Body Work and Emotional Healing work above.
And in alignment with your needs and desires, we will also do work on Conscious Dating and Conscious Sexuality, to support you in growing your capacity to build and cultivate intimate and sexual relationships that feel meaningful for you.
The loss of a pregnancy can affect one’s relationship with God and/or Spirituality. And, the intention of this God Work is to hold space for you to explore, unpack, and untangle how this loss might have affected your relationship with God or your Spirituality. This work will include Psycho-Spiritual Education and Emotional Healing Work to identify and dissolve the wounded beliefs and stories you might have formed about God and your spiritual life as a result of the experience.
- Immersive healing journeys to clear and release the impact of the loss on your body, womb, and key areas of your life.
- Workbooks to support your healing journey and the integration of the medicine received in your healing sessions.
- Holistic Womb Healing Ceremonies to dissolve the imprint of the loss and release heavy emotions connected to the loss.
- Private Podcasts for continuous expansion and integration on your healing journey.
- Twelve (12) bi-monthly (twice a month) healing sessions incorporating Emotional Healing; Body Work/ Somatic Work; Womb Work; and, Inner/ Meditative journeys to facilitate your healing process.
- Indigenous Medicine to support the healing of your womb.
How do I join ENLIVEN?
You can join ENLIVEN by filling out the application form. Once your application form has been received, you will go through an assessment process to ensure you are ready to participate in the healing work. If you are approved, you will receive an offer letter, and thereafter, you can secure your space by paying the first monthly payment. After receipt of this payment, you can begin your healing work at the beginning of a new month.
Where and when does ENLIVEN happen?
Our healing work will happen online in our private portal throughout the six months of this work. In the first month, we will meet weekly, and bi-monthly (twice a month) after that. In each of our sessions, you will experience immersive healing work for 2 hours. During the intermediary weeks of each session, you will engage with material shared in our Workbooks and the Private Podcast.
What kind of support will I receive in ENLIVEN?
You will receive bi-monthly 2-hour healing immersions that include Emotional Healing, Womb Healing, Body Work/ Somatic Work, Healing your Relationship with your Boby and Womb, Intimacy Work, and God Work grounded in the spirit and the Kingdom of the One True Living Source God.
Is there a physical and practical component to ENLIVEN?
Yes. Right from the beginning of our work together, you will receive a recommendation to begin steaming your womb with water and herbs and to start working with womb teas to help cleanse, soothe, and nourish your womb. During our time together, you will also engage in a Womb Healing Ceremony, which you can attend in person or whose instructions will be shared with you should you not be able to make the in-person session. And, if your experience is recent, you will also receive guidance on how to practically care for a postpartum body and womb.
Do you have payment plans for ENLIVEN?
Yes. The investment for this healing program is US$2222. And there are 3 payment options.
Option 1: you can pay the $2222 in full, as a once-off payment.
Option 2: you can pay $388 per month, for 6 months.
Option 3: you can pay $258 per month, for 9 months.
Extended payment plans are available. Please email me at hello@tumelomoreri.com for a conversation on what’s possible for you.
Do you have a womb healing protocol shorter than 12 sessions?
Yes. You can explore SUSTAIN, my 3-session womb healing protocol here >>.
Any other questions not covered here?
If you have any other questions I have not covered here, please email at hello@tumelomoreri.com
Hello there! My name is Tumelo Moreri. I am an ordained Womb Healer based in Botswana, and I support women seeking to heal their inner womb wounds and pains and reclaim the power and sovereignty of their wombs.
My work is influenced by African Indigenous Knowledge Systems and Psycho-spiritual Healing, and is grounded in the Kingdom of the One True Living Source God, and in mentorship and training in Womb Healing, Quantum Healing, Cosmic Womb Wisdom, Menstruality and Cycle Awareness, Pleasure and Intimacy Work, Sacred Sexuality, and Trauma-Informed Space Holding.
Through my healing practice, I offer womb healing protocols for women seeking to heal their wombs. And through my body of work on Womb Healing for Pregnancy Loss, I support women who have experienced loss to facilitate healing for their wombs and dissolve the impact of the loss on key areas of their lives.
A devotional mystic and scientist, I’ve also graduated in Actuarial Science and Mathematical Statistics from the University of the Free State and have the privilege of being a Mandela Rhodes Scholar, a Zanele Mbeki Fellow, and an Alumnus of the Global Shapers Community of the World Economic Forum. It’s an honour to have you here, drawn to this work and exploring this healing offer. I look forward to supporting you in your healing.
